Sometimes it's still worth while to engage them and benefit from their perspective.
He didn't tell me a single thing I wasn't already acutely aware of. He did, however, call me "faggot".
There is no amount of valuable feedback that tolerating bigotry and hate and disrespect for human dignity is worth. None.
Furthermore, he delivered zero value, and explicitly clarified his intent to reduce value.
Good faith, or nothing at all. Those are the rules.
Can we be done with this post now?
Fair enough. Thanks again for responding. If you are aware of these issues and concerns, I look forward to future communication about how they will be addressed.