I think the judgmental nature of others comes from self-distrust, so someone looks for a place to blame someone else. The judgmental nature of others can feed the ego and become silent killers. It not only kills the character of others, but also kills the character of oneself.
When someone judges others, it may come from envy. That's why popular and successful people will become victims of judgment for people who are actually afraid of being rivaled.
The sad thing this couple of years was when someone was already showing suicidal symptoms, the person was still blamed about his/her life that was not close to God.
About killing self character, comes from self-judgmental attitude that can not be someone else. And everyone is born to be different. In the end, people who can feel at peace are the ones who can accept the diversity.
The beauty in diversity.
Thanks for your sharing.