Don't beg for votes on others posts. You can grow a circle if you read posts that interest you, then comment logically on those posts. Never make the post you are commenting on about yourself as that is an insult to the person who wrote it.
Figure out the things than interest you and post on those things. As you build your circle with like minded people using the method I mentioned up above, they will be the audience for your posts as you share common interests. Your posts are all over the place (not necessarily a bad thing) but you run the gamut from planting roses to a post about a wife performing oral on her husband and ... well, partaking in the happy ending. I would hazard a guess that you will find two distinct audiences and might want to decide which interests you, if either really did.
To combine both ideas, have patience and BE YOURSELF. Not everyone likes the same things, but you will not find the ones who do if you are fake here.
Good luck and hope to not see you spamming my friends posts again.