I been doing alot of thinking the past couple weeks . Calling someone fat and ugly plus sevral other unmentionables. Is emotional abuse at first i thought it was from anger or hurt. It was then it dawned on me I have been enotionaly abused . I thought I caused it but later it was brought to my attention it was caused from something I had no control over. It's not okay to call people names for any reason . Everyone has some insecurities . That don't give you the right to belittle them . It took my bestfriend reading the text messages to say hey thats not cool. You don't deserve to be talked to like this . It really upset him to know i had become use to it. So now i am taking a stand name calling will not be tolerated. I don't care what the situation is. I won't take the abuse anymore. I am so thankful for my bestfriend it has took him reassuring me that i am none of those things that was said to me . I have caught myself before the words actually come out . So don't emotionally abuse anyone . Those things hurt as well. Just because it don't leave a mark you can see doesn't mean it don't hurt.