Having kids is definitely a whole different level of responsibility haha. I never can fathom how some of these super entrepreneurs like Elon Musk can balance parenting on top of all the other stuff they do.
That's cool that you found a good balance. I think it will get better for me as I find some higher paying gigs, so I can have more flexibility. right now its a lot of 12 hour days but I agree with you that it can be self-indulgent