Wow you're an African? And a woman? Whew! Well you've said it all, I lost my parents at age 19, and ever since I've been struggling hard to make my own choices even when I wasn't ready.
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These days I'm so scared of parenting that I choose not to even get married,
You have written well this is amazing I learnt
Just make sure that before you have kids, you yourself aren't kidding around no more!