I think you just found my dream mountain cave home! :D
besides that, sounds like that was some wild "roller-coaster ride" of a dream you had, with (if I understood correctly) a rather bitter woman stuck in the middle just trying to muck everything up out of shear jealously, over essentially... nothing! lol
Those cave-homes are in Myra, Turkey, I loved to look at them. We had to sneak into the site as it was already closing time, totally worth it! :D
Yes, you understood it correctly, some lunatic tried to mess up my beautiful dream :D