Why do we more easily blame others and demand that we change, why not improve ourselves first?
During this time every problem exists, we are trained to blame others instead of looking at ourselves. Trained to judge the faults of others rather than judge the inner turmoil. In addition, perhaps because there is a sense of satisfaction when someone changes because of our demands. that's a fact! We feel powerful over him.
This is where the ego becomes our master. So when there is a problem, we will be in a hurry to find someone else we will make a scapegoat, we free ourselves from mistakes and escape responsibility for the problems that occur. It does not feel we have built a stronger society to blame others.
Before hastily blaming others, slowly ask yourself, "Have I been the right person all along?" If you often blame your men, your friends, and others. slowly ask yourself, "Have I been a good human being for them?"
Before you blame God for the events that happened to you. Slowly ask yourself!
"Have I been a good servant, according to the commands set by God?"