Monday morning. The first day of my official vacation. And my last official vacation. The morning began with the phone call of my boss. "You did not pour documents for the extension of the contract ..." It was true. I did not do it. I was sorry to upset her - my boss is a fine person, kind and understanding. But I just do not have the strength to continue doing what I do. And I finally made a decision.
In psychology there is such a concept of "comfort zone". Going beyond the "comfort zone" is always painful. And it's not even that the "comfort zone" is good for us. There can be as well - "a pretty familiar cozy marsh", and it's bad, even very bad. But we continue to stay there, because we are afraid to change something.
In my "comfort zone" it was good. In the sense that it was comfortable and cozy. If not for one building - I felt that I had stoped to grow, stoped to develop. I reached a certain level of development, which was the maximum for this work and for this post. In front of me there were three ways.
The first way is to stay where I am and so, as I am. This would mean further dipping into a viscous cozy quagmire. Another three to five years, and I will not get out of it. Yes, I will have a job and a salary, but my progress will stop. This is not what I choose.
The second way is to stay where I am and find a hobby. Perhaps for someone this is a really good option. But, to be honest, which one washed it for me? Work will become an annoying factor distracting me from my hobby. This is unfair both in relation to work, and to people who work together with me. After all, my attitude will always adversely affect the quality of my work.
I chose the third way - to leave. Of course, this frightens. But I thought about this. Imagine that you are climbing a balloon. If you look only through an otvetvie in the floor, you will be if not scary, then at least uncomfortable, because you will not see the whole picture, do not see the prospect. So it is necessary either to rise higher, or to look from a different position. Better - both.
I wish you a successful working week and do not be afraid of the changes in your life.
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I support you, go on girl!
Thank you!