Hey again. I thought I was responding to this comment the other day, but I responded to a different one I think you directed at the other guy I was chatting with. Oops!
So, thanks again for the comment. Umm. I appreciate the kind words and agree with what you're saying in the first paragraph.
I think that "love your enemy as yourself" should first be reflected back to self-love. Is it the case that the one who takes this saying seriously is one who can love himself at all? Do you love yourself?
Self love is the way that I managed to come to these realizations, it wasn't until I loved myself deeper that I was able to extend that love to everyone else.
The moment when one has defeated someone with words or deeds is not really a victory, because where there is a winner, there is always a loser, but both have lost. Unless the loser shakes hands with the winner with a light heart and admits that he erred.
I've thought similar thoughts quite a bit... And I'm not totally absolute in my ideas here... I used to run a contest here and I eventually felt conflicted because some people had some bad experiences with losing and it made me want to move away from competition to cooperation, but I do still think there is wisdom to be gained from competition and that it has it's uses, though I once again generally agree with what you've said especially if we're all "one"...
I see you mentioned a part there about " if the competitors consider the contest a welcome challenge from the outset, they are already wise. " so, yeah... If the competitors have a healthy understanding then that can work! Though, sometimes I suppose there is also wisdom in having to go through that more egoic loss as well.
I think I may have seen that movie you mentioned and that's an interesting example!
it reminds me of a quote I saw in the anime show Naruto where someone said something like... "The two things that make you strongest in life is having someone to protect and having someone to compete against".
Thanks for appreciating the article! And also the conversation as well, I agree! Definitely a lot of interesting things to think about. :)
HaHa! That's alright. :D
You mean the moment when the ego is defeated that it makes one humble? Yeah, that's true. When I am able to put my ego aside, I feel that it is not so difficult to shake hands to the winner.
I find this is true for also one and the same person :)
By the way, I remember we have had some contact quite a time ago. I lost track of you but then found you again. I myself am not posting regularly as I used to do.
I will check up on you once in a while.
Thank you, too, for being open minded.
Indeed.
Yeah, I remember talking with you and I appreciate your perspective on things! It's nice to chat with you again. Apologies if I didn't respond to everything, I got really backed up on my messages recently and am quite busy. I'm hopefully going to respond to everything when I get time. Just quite overwhelmed.
Thanks for checking up on me, and you're welcome for being open minded!
Hope all is well! :)