I don't offhand remember who said this, but the quote "Anger is like acid: It only corrodes the vessel it's in" comes to mind here.
According to my Human (who's a nice guy), nice guys don't finish last, they usually finish 3rd or 4th. Sometimes 2nd.
Nice becomes Evil by digging a hole on the front walkway that Evil will fall into when Evil comes calling to get his (her)pound of flesh. Or IS that evil? Or is it merely boundary setting?
=^..^=
Boundary setting...
I'm going to use use that one :)
as she resumes shoveling ...