In this life, very few people who want to accept the shortcomings of others.
The tendency of people to always want to get perfect. While perfection in this era is increasingly scarce, including scarcity in choosing the perfect wife.
A friend who is confused about giving parables; in this age looking for a perfect wife rich, beautiful, good descendants and believers the level of difficulty is like looking for a white crow.
It is impossible to be found because it is long as the name of the crow is the color must be black.
It seems that this friend is very good at inventorying prospective wives. How not, he categorized women by profession and the answer was still not ideal.
If you marry a doctor, later on a family trip considers the husband of a patient.
If you are married to a lecturer, then your husband will be considered a student. Marriage with santri, fear of being considered a yellow book, and so on.
Bad wife is afraid of being insulted, even having a beautiful wife The point is, if we follow this friend's school, we can be single for life.
Indeed, the matter of choosing a prospective wife is not a joke. But if you choose too much, you can choose sugar cane, what is meant is the sweet part but the taste is bland. So that marriage does not last long and as a result, KUA increases due to the rush in making choices.
Actually the matter of dating is the secret of God, as well as the secret of God about steps, rizki and encounters. Humans can only try, but God determines.
It could be that we spend energy looking for a wife like a white crow, but it says otherwise we actually get black crows.
Believe there is nothing perfect in this world. Perfection belongs to Allah only.
Therefore all the determination of the criteria for the prospective wife, the most important is the morality (faith).
Physical beauty is relative and this time there are many sophisticated clinics that can turn bad into women into beautiful.
Another problem to perpetuate marriages is our cultural tradition; from the husband and wife.
Anyway if you have love. Wrap it up!
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