DONT 🙅 BE IN A RELATIONSHIP 💏 UNLESS YOU HAVE PLANS FOR EACH OTHER😗😗

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in this lifeFor those of you girls and guys who have chosen the WRONG person to date, marry, or have happy fun time sessions with shouldn't blame yourselves up over your failed relationships! Especially if you legitimately believed that you were choosing the good man at the time. Although you may be the common reason, you are NOT always the culprit of your partnerships demise! But, if you knowingly and willingly choose someone that you know is toxic in some manner and you decide to remain with them, then i dont have any sympathy fotmr you and dont expect anyone to! You are 100% at fault if you do such a thing! PERIOD!

A friend of mine, was in a situation where he became friends with a girl that he worked with. Although he found her attractive, he didn't pursue her because he knew she was involved. Nor was he attempting to befriend her, but the more he worked with her, the more we conversed, and the more we discovered that we had in common! After that, he noticed A LOT of flirty and outright sexual behaviors/comments directed at him. Such as "Of all the guys here, I'd🖕YOU! AND ONLY YOU!"they was alone and in an isolated part of the building.So, he stepped to her and asked "WHAT'S UP WITH ALL OF THE SEXUAL INNUENDO? DO YOU REALLY FEEL THAT WAY? She said yes and then went on about how abusive and unfaithful her BF was. She burst into tears and he consoled her as best he could.

Somehow, she wouldn't leave this dude no matter what he did! Even after giving him her # unsolicited! He got tired of hearing about whats his face and said "If I'm so great, then why are you still with him and not me?" He never got a legit answer, so after a few weeks, he stopped answering her calls! He told her that I refused to be her emotional tampon and perpetually in the FRIEND ZONE! I'm not playing 2nd 🤕to anyone! I deserve better than that! I'm nobody's cuck, simp, or SUCKER! If I'm attracted to a girl,(And she knows it!) then I have ZERO interest in being "JUST A FRIEND" and/or a MALE GF! If you don't respect my time and effort, then don't expect me to respect you as a lady! This is one of the major reasons why I've shied away from relationships! People don't respect them anymore