Hello everybody,
I think about the topic. I played my quest, but my mind was stuck at one point. What should I write. If you follow my blog, you may have noticed that I usually see real things. I am a keen observer. I carefully monitor my surroundings, and then try to express my thoughts on a specific issue.
As the holidays go, and it’s cold here. I live in a warm atmosphere, so we are not used to such a cold climate. That is why I prefer to stay in my room. Simply put, because of this cold, I locked myself in the house: P XD does not leave anywhere and does not enjoy his vacation playing in abandoned lands, watching the upcoming episodes of my favorite series. Both online and offline chat with friends.
Not to mention that I am at my university. Where we discuss all issues related to our UNI life or real life. Our only UNI employee complained about her fiancé (Traditionally, the word fiancé is used for an engaged woman or man), so it is. In any case, firstly, she should not allow her personal life to matter in the group, but she might need some suggestion, which is why she touched on this topic. Yes, our group is about where we can discuss our real problems, but only at a certain level. Not too personal.
I am discussing this issue here because it is a very common problem, and I felt I should highlight it.
My question
Why do we expect so much from people? Why can't we limit our expectations? So yes, I gave this post a headline. If you want to stay happy in your life, just limit yourself and limit your expectations. It doesn't matter who this person is, who he is, your boyfriend, groom or best friend.
I would like to mention something here. I expect and expect too much, but I only have expectations from my mother and woman. I know that I can keep my expectations from them. In this world, no one loves you like your parents do.
So, what exactly complained about her problem, her fiance does not pay attention to her as she deserves. Or he does not treat her the way she wants.
I asked her one simple question. Why are you becoming a slave to your fiance? My question was a little rude, but I'm sorry, I'm like this: P
She was shocked by what I asked, hehe, so I asked her the same question again. Of course, she did not have an answer to my question, then I told her: “Dear, when you believe that your fiancé should treat you in a certain way, then you give your happiness into the hands of someone you cannot control.
You create expectations from someone you cannot control. You want to feel empowered, but it will lead you on the path of sorrow and suffering. The reason is simple when you create expectations, then you are waiting for an answer to these expectations. And if this does not happen the way you want, you feel pain and wonder why you are not happy.
Yes, I can sometimes speak inadvertently, we give permission to others to control our emotions, which, in fact, is wrong, I think. so stay happy and acceptance is the key to happiness
Oh I just wrote OMG
Acceptance is a key word of happiness lovely
In any case, ending this post with this beautiful quote.
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