One whiteness can cover three kinds of ugliness.
This phrase I heard from one of my Chinese students when I asked her about her insights with fairer skin. She said that in China , white skin is preferable by the society than the brown skin. In the ancient times, white skin is associated with wealth, elegance and beauty while darker skin implies the laborers who worked hard under the heat of the sun for the whole day. These discrimination is still prevalent nowadays in Asia. In a recent survey conducted, it says that 4 out of 10 women in South Korea, Hongkong, Malaysia and of course in the Philippines used whitening products. I think it doesn't have to do with racism or being a "colored" person but it is actually a trend that our ancestors bequeathed to us 200 years ago.
In the Philippines, more and more people not just the women but also the men who have become obsessed with whiter skin complexion. During the Spanish colonial tyranny, many Filipino slaves, workers, farmers had dark brown skin because they had to work under the scorching sun to serve the "white headed" Spanish with their white rosy cheeks. The Spanish people were powerful over the Filipinos, they had all the money, the power and the control over everyone else in our own country. As time passed, these colonizers had developed romantic relationship with the natives and had children who are called mestizos and mestizas.
Mestizos and mestizas are traditionally used in Spain and the Philippines to mean a person mixed of European or Asian descent.
Wealth has been passed down to their mestizo offspring including their lighter skin and they were called the "Dons and the Donas" at that time until now. If we call someone "Don or Dona" it automatically registers in our head that they are in power, they have a lot of money and they are beautiful. Sadly, until this day the skin color remains the status basis in the Philippines. If you have a dark skin, it means you probably work in the sun for the whole day as a construction worker, fisherman, farmer, porter in the Pier, vegetable vendor in Carbon or a "kargador" or a banana cue peddler around the neighborhood even if you are the son of a lawyer or a doctor living in a mansion. But if you have a white skin even if you are a peasant, people never bully you for living in the mountain area far from civilization.
I was a country girl living in the Southern part of Cebu. When I was on my 3rd grade in elementary, my parents decided to live in the city because of my dad's work. I was 9 years old when I transferred school. On my first day, of course you have this long introduction in front of the beasts in the classroom. The students looked at me intently and one person asked, "Where did you come from?" then I answered, "I came from Boljoon - in the South" and everybody was like, "aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh" - in chorus! Looking at their faces I can sense that they were saying that, "okay, now we know why you have a dark skin because you lived in the countryside". It might be a misjudgment but you know we have this instinct that we can tell if we are bullied non-verbally.
When I started working as a call center agent, I had no time to get outside because of the work schedule. I sleep in the morning then get up in the evening to get to the "airconditioned" office which means I get a fairer skin this time. Now I am working at home as an ESL teacher and as a Steemian recently so I am not exposed to the sun either in a daily basis unless if I go out and buy something or go jogging in the morning. Every time I meet my friends especially those I haven't met for a year or so, they usually say,
Hala! Honeyleeet! nadato naman ka oy. Puti na kaayo ka zaaaii! (panglibre bi!) NYAHHAHAHAAHAH! - o diba? (magpalibre gyud diay basta muputi... hahaha!) ang gamhanan nga Honeylet! abi nila di na ko mukaon og buwad bes. HAHAHA. (I am laughing when writing this right now.)
You see how "white skin" is superior in our society? It's funny how the Filipinos still have this mindset even after 200 years. I admit that I also have this mind conditioning about having a fairer skin. In the Philippine television, about 90% of the endearing and famous stars were born mestizos and mestizas. For example Marian Rivera, Anne Curtis, Bea Alonzo, Jessy Mendiola, Julia Montes, Kim Chiu, Solenn Heusaff, and hundreds of them and they all have white complexion and have been endorsers of whitening products. Our society dictates our actions and has been shaping us of how and who to be in this lifetime. I have to admit that I am guilty of such things. I use a whitening soap and a whitening lotion on a daily basis. I have this feeling of being content when I see myself fair-skinned.
If you happen to visit the Philippines, try to go to the malls, grocery stores, or even in the pharmacies, you can see hundreds of whitening products around. You can also check some online shops in the Philippines and witness how Filipinos are obsessed with white skin. Or ask a random person on the street if he/she prefers a white skin or a nut-brown skin.
I have witnessed this from my Filipina mother-in-law and I always wondered about this. Thank you for the insight
you're welcome @epicfinbar :)
Panglibre nya @honeyletsgo. Nyahahaha!
mas puti ka te. so ikaw manglibre. wahahaaha! :D
In europe, they had the same mindset years ago. Now it has changed, and people want a tan. I believe that people not look that healthy when they are too white. You need some sun for vitamine D and I feel like I look extremely unhealthy in the Dutch winter. When the spring starts, I will tan first a little in the garden before I dare to show my vampire white legs :p
I wish we could switch skin @xsasj. HAHAHAH. kidding! I am happy with my skin actually. but I don't want to be sooo dark. Let me have your vampire legs! hahah
You are already quite white for hee right? I am actually already tanned for my country. I am sure you don't want my vampire legs. That is too much white!
I want to say I like a woman that is tan better than one that is too white. That is why I married a Pinay.
Also do you know about the minnow support project @minnowsupport they can help us little minnows get stronger and maybe some day become a big fish here on steemit.
awee <3 Congratulations Stan! you have a beautiful wife. ^^
Yes I know @minnowsupport and yeah, they have been very helpful to everyone here on Steemit. :)
You are beautiful.
Steem On!
It's weird that this mindset in each country is different, I hate my white Dutch face! I worked last year together with a Chinese intern who wanted also to remain out of the sun to get a white 'tan'. At first I thought but was weird but after reading your story, and where it comes from I begin to understand although I think you can be blessed with your own skin colour!
yeah I think our skin preferences depends on the culture that we're in but I believe we are all beautiful @byiriss. :)
Hii @byiriss, just come to the Phillipines than and get a tan :p
Akong mindset sad ky lahi... If mkakita ko og puti nga girl, imaginun nako nga dli xa puti, if gwapa gni, gwapa jud xa... if maot gani, puti lang jud xa.. haha.. anyway, your definition of "beautiful" might be different from mine... ^^ Nice write up! ^^
HAHAHAHAH! usahay in-ana sad akong mindset @tegoshei. pero da oy basta oy gwapa ta tanan gyud. sa batasan ra gyud bawion ang tanan. hahaha!
Thank you so much. <3
hahaha... mao.. basta buotan, mugwapa pinakalit... ^^ aq ky dli manjud q gwapa... cute lng.. hahaha... :P :P :P
You're welcome... ^^
Morena girl here! You can always feel discrimination everywhere. Sometimes it's just subtle like, "hey that dress does not fit you" but in reality, it just does not match your skin color. Eventually I just accepted it and most of the time "unhan na lang ang joke".
relate much @wandergirl. pero kevs naman ko karun oy. :D basta pamati na ko gwapa ko okay nana bahalag ako rang pamati. hahahaah
Korek! Masuya ma.deadz..haha..dad.on ra jud sa smile..😁😁😁
This idea of beauty is marketed and sold to us by the Americans. A very backward thinking nga unta mawala na sa karong panahona. I remembered Sutukil Sauce's parody about this colonial mindset: CLICK HERE. Have you watched this?
I agree with you @gilnambatac. :D I hope we Filipinos are more proud of our skin. :)
yes, i've watched it. hahahah lingaw kaayo sila
Oh the synchronicity, I just came across an article about white skin obsession just a moment ago!
http://news.abs-cbn.com/life/10/30/17/meet-half-pinay-model-who-wants-to-smash-beauty-standards
I'm quite pale and people I meet always comment I'm unusually light-skinned for a guy. :P
She is really beautiful @rainbowme. :D I've seen her on Instagram.
Great content! Followed and upvoted :3
thanks @jerboa. upvoted you