There is something to be said for the erosion of personal liberties that has resulted from the "War" on terror, and you've highlighted those well. And while countries like the United States have certainly stuck it their noses into places they don't belong, you can't lay all the blame at the feet of this country, nor can you even lay most of the blame there.
The Muslim terrorists fighting Jihad against the world for not believing in the word of Allah and submitting to his will are acting of their own accord (or at the will of their God). It is a choice they have made, and while one can understand a desire for retaliation when loved ones are killed in military strikes, etc., the fact is that they are targeting civilians. Civilians! I don't care who or what you believe in; the systematic slaughter of civilians is inexcusable, and until the world starts holding them accountable, until it stops blaming the few countries that have ever stood for personal freedoms, until people stop making excuses for terrorists, this war can never be won.
It's much more complicated than that. It's true that there are Muslim terrorists that will go out and kill innocent civilians, but the problem is much worse than that. Some people from the US government agencies had trained the Muslim terrorist groups to do what they're doing, for more deliberate chaos and to control the people, who are fooled into thinking that their government will save them by reducing their privacy and freedoms.
Look up Wahhabism, the Muslims that's you're complaining about are Wahhabists, the other Muslims are pretty much the peaceful ones that get attacked and bombed by the US government. Also the US government are the ones that decided to go to war without the US citizen's consent to do so.