As children, we are more transparent with others and with ourselves with respect to what we are and what we feel.
As the years go by, the masks begin, we become a photocopy of someone else, we waste our time asking ourselves:
What are others doing?
Because I want to do what they do?
What are the trends and popularities?
These concerns govern the lives of people who reject SELF and sell themselves to the global predilection, so we forget who we are.
We will live using masks and changing them as we interrelate with different people and tendencies throughout life, capable of lying and believing.
In such everyday things as combing, putting on makeup, work, the music we listen to, the way we dress is more focused on how others see it than what we think about it, asking them:
I look good?
Live a worried life giving priority to the interests of others, the boss to whom account, family to whom to make proud and person with whom to appear and impress to be accepted, in a compulsive way endangering one's own health and happiness.
Would you force yourself so much if nobody looked at you or judged you?
Stop being false and hide to fit, not even God can please everyone.
Do not do the things that you do not want with the pretext that others will say,
you seek to show abilities but they do not have credibility, to do good is free joy is not obligatory, They can even come to love you less you yourself.
"I can not conceive a greater loss than the loss of self-respect." -Mahatma Gandhi.
WHAT WE HAVE TO KNOW IS:
There will always be people who judge based on their ideas about what we are and what we should be. So as long as we live in such a way with values, because if our loved ones are not hurt, then no action can be negative.
Have a process of Self-discovery:
Take the leap and dare to do what you love, is the safest and certain way to feel fulfilled every day.
If you do not know who you are, how do you know where you can go?
Search your identity
Remember that you have unique qualities and something in particular to offer the world that no one else has.
Break all your walls, all your barriers.
Know yourself as you are.
Be able to return hope to you, being real.
To grow you need to betray the expectations of others.. Let's be authentic.