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Well, as a woman I always like to think I'm right, but she could message you tomorrow and confess her undying love for you. I think that humans are very unpredictable. I don't know about you because I grew up a female, but I always struggled with this kind of thing because I always assumed I wasn't attractive enough. I don't know if it's the same for males. But I always assumed "Oh, he doesn't love me back, I'm clearly not pretty enough." because I didn't understand how much deeper it was than that. Now that I'm older, I understand that they didn't stick around because they weren't meant for me. It was never because I wasn't pretty or funny enough. They just weren't for me. So IF that's the case for you, I just hope you don't take any of her feelings personal. There is usually always something else great right around the corner. It never means you aren't GOOD enough. I'm mainly saying all of this to you because I wish someone would have said it to me. Good luck either way. :) Nice people are very hard to find.

Thanks for this, you're amazing :) I really appreciate all of this! You have a very wise perspective on things now though

Thank you so much!!! 😊