The disadvantages of loneliness

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There are people who just love to really be alone and some are classified as introverts whole some just love to be alone many times.

There are some benefits that such people can get from Being Alone , these are just my own personal views and does not mean it will definitely be a fact to everyone but its just my own personal opinion....

some of the benefits of being alone are :

A person who is alone can improve their productivity and also improve their creativity too because many people tend to develop great ideas whenever they are alone and there is nobody else to distract them , the reason why some people cannot become a creative thinker is because they are distracted by other people, so when a person is alone it can make them to avoid those distractions and be able to think well.

I also believe that it is easier for a person to be able to clear their mind and make their brain function better , socializing can also make the brain to function and be active too but there should be a balance , distractions can prevent some certain things when we are trying to clear our mind but being alone will make it easy.

As weird as it sounds, being Alone sometimes could be healthy for a relationship ,sometimes we just need to give our partners some healthy space and make them miss us and yearn for us , there is this adrenaline rush that occurs when we do not see our partner for a while and we later now finally see them , it tends to build a greater bond between both partners, but that do not mean we should stay away from them for long but once in a while we should learn to spend time alone.


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Now let me talk about what i think are some disadvantages of being alone..Here they are :

I believe that being alone can make a person to become so sluggish and also apathetic too...when a person is alone and they are idle ,I believe it will reduce the performance of their brain function at that moment so that is why such person should prevent idleness and engage in something that will make their brain to be able to function well at a peak performance.

Another problem with being alone is that it often lead to loneliness and being lonely can cause emotional issues for the lonely person , it could make them become so sad and even depressed too so that is a disadvantage of being alone because it will make the person to experience some issues which are not good for their mental and physical health.

Being alone for too long can make someone to start feeling like they are in a lonely world , it will make them to start having worries and negative thoughts concerning themselves and those thoughts creates low self-esteem in the person and they begin to feel no one cares about them or that no one truly loves them , if those thoughts are not controlled it could make the person feel so miserable and they get depressed to.

Being alone sometimes can be good especially if we want to clear our head and bring in ideas and thoughts that will make our life better but the disadvantages of being alone overpowers the benefits of being alone and that is why I think there should be a balance between being alone and being with other people..

We can be alone once in a while but that do not mean we should consistently be alone , we should learn to also engage with others too so that we will be able to avoid the disadvantages of being alone..