use this site to post. It shows you your comments really nicely https://ecency.com/@deaconlee
I use this program for auto voting. https://hive.vote/dash.php
I had added you to my list right after I saw you had come back.
Make sure you go in and change your Master Key. The keys you are using now are your Steemit keys. so you want to change them so the accounts do NOT have the same keys.
Plus I use GinaBot. Here is a post I found about it..not sure how recent it is. https://hive.blog/steemit/@jheff-shayd/a-begineers-guide-to-rising-on-steemit-using-ginabot-to-give-you-notifications
It gives you Discord notifications about if someone posts and so on.......
will read this again later when I have more time to answer better but at least it is a place for you to start :D
Oh and use Keychain. It is a chrome browser exstention
Okay thanks, I will try to figure it all out over the weekend.