Oi!
Do you need permission to ask a girl out before you even ask her out?
- haha lol no? Just do it. The worst what can happen to you is she just says no? And then what? Move on.
Is it toxic masculinity to put my hand on a girl’s leg (YES & NO) ...not a fan if no signs given... If she is touchy too and you will see if she likes you then please go for it?
...or follow her to her front door for a goodnight kiss with out asking absolute permission first?
-Well you hopefully got some messages during the date and a feel for how it went? You will just feel if it's right for her or not. If she gives you a hug and turns her head to the side, that's clearly a sign to GO AWAY, if she just looks at your and is waiting... well then go for it :-D
I don't really get why this is such a big deal? :-D
Maybe you think too much :) Mwah :-*