I'm already a man, or only in the future?

Having finished writing about women, I should have apologized to them, that I started not with myself, I did not start with men. Now I will try to fix it and even the score.

The male's energy is like steel. He is tempered in "fire, water and copper pipes" throughout his life. By the way, not everyone can achieve the necessary doping in this incarnation. And, if you met such a man, then do not try to disrupt the "male crown" from him. It will only get worse. Even with a man "in embryo," a woman needs to behave with a female's position.

Only then he will have a chance to manifest himself as a leader in his family. If you, looking at your "fetus," decide to temporarily take on the functions of a man in the house, as long as his "beak gets stronger," then I do not envy you. From this moment in the house there will live two men: one lime, the second "scandalous woman". But showing in your house purely feminine qualities, your man will be forced to purchase his hardening not in house slippers, but on the side: in professional activity, in communication with real men, etc. Otherwise, he will harden on you, the peasant in a skirt and all his energy will go into controversy with you.

As a result, two loving people, instead of completing each other, turn the house into a stadium, and themselves become two tired clowns, not suitable for housekeeping. I had a case in my practice. The client complained to her husband that he saves on her, buying for them both the same male deodorant: "What's the difference?". Result: she is in a shock and another scandal. I suggested that she show her femininity more actively and treat her husband to dinner consisting of the usual women's menu: muesli, desalted rice and mineral water. Like you always eat it. What does it matter to him? And all this with love and meekness. During meals it is also useful to fantasize about the intention of both to change the wardrobe ... to the female. What's the difference? At the same time confidently asserting that the blue skirt in a cell will suit you, dear. And again with love in the voice and meekness. I'm sure you will have dinner in a chic restaurant, during which your husband will present you with at least "Chanel No. 5".

A few days later, this lady decided to double my fee and thanked me. From her words, she had to remember her femininity not only in words, but also externally. So at the dinner table there was not a wife in a dirty T-shirt, but a luxurious woman and table setting was festive.

I remembered this transformation case not so much for you, dear women, as for men. After all, miracles happen. And one such "miracle", instead of correctly interpreting the transformation of your wife into a Cinderella, was interpreted incorrectly. So much so that my wife, instead of her favorite salad, swallowed one tear after another. Well. There are "germs" that never hatch. Therefore, I advise in this case to go into the bathroom to "paddle the nose" and looking at yourself in the mirror, adress your mom and dad: "You were right. It was too early for him, as a man, to marry, and I should, like a woman, turn to my natural intuition, and not to strive for status. "

But if you do not intend to break ties, do not in any way take on a male role. It will not save your union. Remain a woman, no matter what. Just know, this is your karma. Work it out. It is not easy to work out karma. Happens, it is connected with deprivations, poverty, other burdens. But you will be warmed by awareness. Only with this approach your "germ" will one day turn into a desired prince. If you feel that a strange man is sleeping next to you, then safely leave. It happens. "My head ached heavily, music played loudly, and my best friend was keen to see him hers ...

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