There are numerous people out there that goes back to their ex just to get back at them. It is crazy but yes this things happen. Someone going back just to hurt the more.
There are situations where individuals enter a relationship immaturely, the relationship don't last. They can't definitely get back together and have an awesome relationship once they are mature. Everyone deserves a second chance. We all learn from our mistakes to be a better person. That better person is different from the old-self and thus an entirely new individual for the ex.
I hope I made sense
Yeah you made sense @zoneboy. Well like I said if there are some situations that caused the break up like both of being very immature when they got into the relationship, I see no reason why they cant come back together and try again now they are more mature.
Yeah some immature behaviours can lead to beatings. The lady beating the guy or the guy beating the lady. Being old is not a sign of maturity. An individual can be years old and still not mature. Mistakes do happen and it is left for us to accept our differences and move on. Long lasting relationships is not all bed of roses. Lots of thorns in there.
I will also say, to have a better, new life an individual must take a cue from his/her past.
Take a cue from the past and move on. Why would you want to be miserable when there are better opportunities out there for you? If you don't try another, you would always think what you have is the best. Maturity is not by age I agree but in the explanation I gave above the maturity I explained has to do with age. If as a young person you were once in an abusive relationship where he batters you, then before going back with him, ask yourself the above question listed on the post.
This is a kind of double edged sword discussion. We cannot come to a conclusion. I wish there was a poll system so users can vote, it would have been more exciting.
Better options/miserable hmm.
Hehehe, truth is, it always boils down to what your choice is. We can only say it how we see it, but the person in the relationship understands the best