Don't always expect a woman to suffer with You when u had nothing. It's a poor man's mentality, in as much as you are searching for an industrious and independent woman to marry don't expect a woman not to search for a King to become his queen. Be a king build a beautiful kingdom and get a lady you love and crown her your queen, invest your money in her and make her more beautiful help her achieve her destiny and dreams. That's why you are a man so rise up to your responsibility and build your own world.