Marriage a bed of roses, a sweet and the most enjoyable thing that has ever happened to me.
Marriage can be defined as a relationship which is legally or formally recognised between two people, specifically between a man and a woman. It can also be defined as a relationship between people of the same sex.
It is a good thing that has ever happened to me as it is just some days to my wedding anniversary.... It is indeed a bed of roses if it's purposes are fulfilled and it's principles are well respected.
PURPOSE OF WEDDING
pix@my phone on wedding day.
Fruitfulness-The first purpose of wedding is fruitfulness, that is to multiply. This entails two people becoming three, four, five etc. Even though we are still expecting from God, we still thank HIM as he is ever sustaining.
Completeness-When you get married, you become complete as your other half become part of you that day you become engaged in holy matrimony.
Protection-The husband should serve as a source of protection for his wife, treat her like a queen. Be a shelter for her, be there for her during rainy and dry season. It is indeed a bed of roses.
Sharing ideas and suggestions-One of the purpose of wedding is to share ideas and suggestions with your spouse. The best person to share ideas with is your husband and wife because he is the one that tends to understand you most.
Enjoyment-Seriously,i enjoyed this purpose most.I come back from work and meet a delicious and well cooked food on my table without stress, I eat and also enjoy that wonderful thing designed from Almighty.
Oneness in spirit-My best companion so far has been my wife. She treat me like a king, she shared the same spirit with me, she know when am depressed and also my best moments.
CHALLENGES ATTRIBUTED TO MARRIAGE
Even though it is to me a bed of roses because have never regret going into it as early as this in life,it is faced with a lot of challenges as it is not perfect.
Financial challenges-This is the main but not a major challenges in marriage. It is a great aspect of marriage that determines extent to which the marriage can last,however with understanding,it may not pose a threat.
Never a challenge to my marriage has my wife never see money and materials as a big deal. I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
understanding-Understanding each other is also a great challenges in marriage.It is a challenge to my own marriage because we argue a lot the first three months of the Holy matrimony.However,i sat down one day and decided to undergo thorough investigation and examination about her and ever since then we have been living happily.
Learn how to ask for forgiveness-Two wrongs can never make a right, therefore you need to as husband and wife learn how to ask for forgiveness from each other in order to foster unity between yourself and to enhance the growth of the love.
CONCLUSION
Marriage can be a bed of roses if it is couple with God's rules and regulations and also with trusting each other.
It is on this note that I notify this wonderful platform of my 1st WEDDING ANNIVERSARY with the best woman in the whole world which comes up on 11-03-2018.
pix@my phone on wedding day
Part of programs laid down is the courtesy visit to penitentiary and motherless babies home towards showing love to them as I learn from this wonderful platform(STEEMIT) .
I plan to get some things for them ranging from toiletries, clothings and consumables.
Kindly wish me happy anniversary in advance fellow STEEMIANS. Thanks for your attention
God bless me!
God bless you!!
God bless Steemit community!!!
Am donkenny1992.
Congratulations man.
Thanks my great man, really appreciate your attention and upvote....
Congrats man.
Thanks boss, really appreciate.
Though I was little late in taking final decision for marrying a girl, but , yes, definitely, it is the best thing ever happened to me. Alhamdulillha. I am really happy with my better half.
One thing:
This is not the marriage and it is against nature and Almighty's rules. I do not and will never accept same sex marriage.
Your very next sentence void this definition of same sex marriage.
Exactly, how the same sex married couple multiply?
By the way, really wonderful post on marriage. Keep up the good work buddy.
Wow, like that @Hafiz34,some country legalise such and thus make it a definition by book. However I agree solely it should be between MAN AND WOMAN in order to enjoy its purpose and fulfilling our Lords commandments...
So beautiful!!!
Thanks @ charisma,appreciate your attention and upvote..
You are most welcome, and if you do all of those things you wrote about here then your wife will be a very happy woman, the rest of her days!
Am trying my best dear,i want to be the best man for her in her world... Wish you well too.
Look at you go, @donkenny1992! Great post.
Thanks dear, really appreciate your comments and attention always.
Ohhhh congratulations to the couple.
I wish that God bless your home forever.
Greetings to his wife @donkenny1992.
Thanks ma'am, really appreciate your comments. Extend my greetings to your husband.
:) Congrats to u and ur wife! such a wonderful, lovely post. Thanks for sharing with us. It's wonderful stories of life like this one that start the day off with a smile! :)
All thanks to you for all your tutorials towards making me a better steemian. I appreciate you bosa
:)
Congrat sir
Thanks man.
Congrats man! Cool wedding pictures you've got there.
Thanks dude, lovely comments.
You're welcome!
You're welcome!
Congratulations. @donkenny So happy for you
Thanks @my boss akintunde, really appreciate your comment...
Happy marriage life
Lucky wife
You are indeed