Perhaps you have met people who are afraid to bring discomfort to someone. They always live under the status of "gray mouse", trying not to stand out from the crowd. I call such people "comfortable." They never fail, will transfer all of its plans, but would not disturb the comfort of other people. How to get out of the state of "comfortable person" and realize your potential? About this and propose a to talk to the in this article. First of all, you should realize the following: only you are able to lead your life. To go unnoticed is your own choice. Think about whether you need to sacrifice your life for the comfort of others? Error: you think that refusing a request for help – ruin relationships with people. This is partly true. They first time you will be offended, then look for another "handy man". But at the same time, they will understand that you have an internal core, you are a strong and independent person who is able to make decisions independently and bear responsibility for them. Unless, you wanted your whole life? Someone might call it selfishness, but I think it's natural selection. Survive and succeed only the strongest, those who realize their strength and capabilities, those who choose to fight for their happiness to the last breath. In fact, every person has a chance to break through obstacles and become noticed, like a flower that grows hard through the asphalt. No one believes that this will work, but thanks to a sincere desire and hard internal work is a miracle.