In every situation, you find yourself just know it is written it gonna be that way for you by the almighty.We always think anything that happens to us in this life, is our fault which is not. Yes, it may be one's fault but not everything.
We should stop blaming yourself for something that has been written that is going to happen to you if anything happens to you just have faith that everything we be better but if you put full mind into it
I accept what you said @sallyquin, we should stop blaming ourself because every body is not perfect.There will be fault somewhere sometimes which it something we should accept.