RE: "Is there a way to convince my boyfriend to put more effort into our relationship?"

[nomad-magus]

I understand what you are saying. "girls are girls" and that's how it's been for many many years. My point is that humanity evolves, and man and women begin to integrate both the feminine and masculine sides that are within them. I agree that there should be a reciprocity in a relationship, but what happens when there isn't? that's the issue. Instead of complaining, the woman should claim her power and make a choice.