To some, you would not appear to be the girl next door type. At first glance. However, with your family values, good relationship with parents, loyalty to your friends and honest to a fault, you have some of the qualities of a great person and potential partner. You are just going through your teenage years a little later than some.
I think the first time ever I was called the girl next door -type was like a month ago by a photographer who was stalking me, you might remember those few sets of photos. We actually talked about that one for quite a while because it's not something I ever identified myself with.
It's funny that I actually joke around with my mom all the time that I must barely be a teenager, because she herself is so youthful and energetic for her age. Like damn, she is 50+ and started a new hobby, ICEHOCKEY two years ago, crazy. So I don't think my teenage shenanigans are going to end any time soon ;)
The "girl next door type" can be interpreted many ways. I just see you as a great person, not as any "type". I don't like labels anyway. And my comment on going through the teenage years later than some? Well, the teenage years are a good thing. You explore, do what you want and what is considered outside the norm. That definitely is a good thing. Most people conform and are miserable. You are not a conformist.
So, I hope you continue your "teenage" years and do what makes you happy. Maybe someday soon, when someone thinks of the "girl next door type", it could be you they aspire to be. I think of it that way.
That judgment cannot be made based on what she's written. @eveuncovered has written something to the effect that she's somewhat hot-tempered and that she's got very strong emotions. Despite that, she doesn't strike me as unaware of herself or directionless in any way like teenagers often are. On the contrary, she seems to understand herself well and have a pretty good sense of her values and identity. Her lifestyle choices seem to reflect that awareness perfectly. That's what I find interesting in what she reveals about and of herself. I really like much of the photography, too. (Not the skin in itself, though, because the Internet has exabytes of that readily available.) Teenagers drift from one thing to another in an effort to find themselves. @evenuncovered doesn't.
By the way, I don't think anyone should harbor any illusions about turning Eve into a pulla-baking harmless girl next door type. I don't believe that would be conducive to anybody's sanity.
I am pretty sure I said somewhere myself that I'm living my long lost teenage years
now, and it was probably in a comment to @celcius100. Otherwise, you are not too far off the mark, I am quite well aware of what I want to do and what I am doing, though I am not sure where it all will lead me.
Funny you mention pulla, when I was little, I baked my first pullataikina at the age of 4, and did it very often when I was a child. So now I hate baking it!
I see. Sorry @celcius100. If his words were based on yours, the he was in a way correct.
Anyway, what teenagers often do is rebel or act irresponsibly as part of a process to create a separate adult identity for themselves. It seems that you did this because the opportunity presented itself to make a living out of your photography hobby and your modeling aspirations. You've also written that you have suffered some kind of skin problems in your hands as a result of your work as a chef. From your own description, I gather that you also prepared like a champ: paid off all debt and even stacked up canned food in preparation for a bear market. You also wrote that you have a crypto portfolio. Also, 6000 SP is respectable amout. That makes you a small dolphin.
I don't appreciate you making assumptions about my comment. You don't have any idea what I was referring to. I also did not know you were the expert on her life experiences. If you want to act like you are the fountain of @eveuncovered truth, I would appreciate it if you would do it without attaching it to my comment.
Lifestyle choices (based on what she has written here), not life experiences. That was my wording. Please respond to what I've actually written.
Based on what she's written here, she really seems to live the kind of life that suits her. But maybe I shouldn't have written the last paragraph as it probably sounded like it assumed too much about your comment. The purpose of "by the way" was to communicate that I wasn't referring to you. I failed at that.
Her teenage years a little later than some? Like.. drinking outdoors and passing out after drinking some super sweet liquor?
First time I got drunk was with peach vodka, never ever ever drinking that shit again.
Out of pure curiosity, did you ever throw up the peach vodka?
Usually that's the typical point after which you never drink something again.
I sure did. But I have also thrown up after numerous other drink, yet continue to drink them.