I agree on all of those points and they are the most obvious signs that you are in an abusive relationship with the abusive person.
But, sometimes people fall into a trap I can help her/him. I can change him. He/she will change if I just keep trying to change him. It is the humanity in us which sometimes always tries to see the good in people. And, it is admirably trying to do so. But, sometimes we have to realize people don't want to change their ways, they don't see what they are doing is wrong, and they probably never will. Knowing the difference when to go a separate way is the hardest thing to do for people. :)
Great post my friend. Interesting topic. Keep on writing. :)
Hello, @awakentolife I've seen you on steemengine but wasn't really able to interact and get to know you. Glad you dropped by! ^^
Yes, those thoughts could be a factor why someone's sticks and doesn't want to leave a relationship.
On the other hand, I still believe that people do change and there is good in them. ^^ They just got to have the right perspective and they don't need anyone to do that for them, it's from within and their willingness to completely turn around their life (that's what I learned too). ^^
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