I stayed up late and went back thru your posts to find what you mentioned about all this.
I am so sorry for you man.
Regardless of the situation --- men need to stop being biased against like this, it happens every day, women are NOT the only victims in life.
I wish I could do more to help you my friend.
https://steemit.com/steemit/@barrydutton/our-steemit-brother-here-is-in-bad-shape-very-nice-guy-he-really-needs-our-help