Stay strong, and make the best of this difficult situation! Divorce is the hardest thing ever, especially if there are kids involved. The truth will reveal itself and remember...it is not how you fall or how many times you fall...it is the way you stand up, and best of all....KARMA IS A REAL BITCH! Everything that you do to others...will come back to you in some form. You just have to sit and wait...and if you are lucky then God will even let you watch. Stay strong and the whole steemit community is surely praying for you.