Maybe i watched Sherlock too much :)
hahaha perhaps :P
Nah, I hear what you are saying... and I believe that each individual must do what works for them... you know... for me, I have learnt that when observing people I make sure I am aware of the "place" that I am observing them from and I make sure it is one of love, compassion and understanding. Having this approach, I find - changes what you end up "seeing"
Thanks for the lovely comment :)