The dialog between you two made me laugh :)
If i come to main subject, i have a problem with observing people.
Since i was a child i was too observant and making people uncomfortable. And it didn't change.
I still can't help observing deeply and try to understand them. But i figured out the more i observe them, more i started to judge them reluctantly. And i hate to judge people but as i said i can't help it.
For example, i see a woman on the street trying to fix her hair or looking at herself through a window of a shop, i just think like "she is insecure". I know this is disgusting but i started to make deductions.
Maybe i watched Sherlock too much :)
Observing people, sadly, has a negative effect in my life. I started to look away to avoid judgements and keep loving them :)
You found a weak spot of me and made me write this long comment. Thanks for sharing.
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hahaha perhaps :P
Nah, I hear what you are saying... and I believe that each individual must do what works for them... you know... for me, I have learnt that when observing people I make sure I am aware of the "place" that I am observing them from and I make sure it is one of love, compassion and understanding. Having this approach, I find - changes what you end up "seeing"
Thanks for the lovely comment :)