Statism is so destructive, here is another clear example.
Your wife is using the corrupt power of the state against you.
Better buy as much dash and steem as possible from the job you have and get the hell far away and in protection from this violent woman, that is also the mother to your children.
I know its a very tough situation, I have been living something similar for 11 years.
Best advice: buy dash and steem power... and go full MGTOW (see Sandman on youtube) ... and forget about that woman.