I don't have an allergy to tomatoes per se but it really does mess me up. I can eat it in sauces or soups but that's because the other ingredients counter the tomato but if the whatever is really tomato based then I can't eat it.
It's actually more common than you think and can affect people in different ways.
Just so long as you don't do what some dickhead of a cafe owner said to me when I asked for no tomato. He said they were too busy to NOT add tomato so he told me to just put it to one side.
Given that cooked tomato never stays to one side I told him no. I never got my way and I never went back.
A customer knows his body more than some twat behind a counter.
With that I'm not saying all cafe managers are twats but this one was king twat on this day.
Point taken. Thanks. 👍