First, my warmest wishes for your son, but also for you and your wife. It is a mental and emotional roller-coaster. Be strong, for him and for each other.
As for a name. Take a long breath, close your eyes. Imagine him at 2 years old, perhaps walking about your home in an ungainly manner, exploring and learning of this world. All this birth turmoil behind him, he just knows your love, the safety of home, good health, and how much fun it is to touch, grab, pull, and taste everything. Now, think how you feel at that moment. What 3 words come to your mind about him. Not about you. About him and his bright future. Write those worlds down and look at them. You and your wife, just stare at them foe 3 minutes, saying nothing. Let you minds go deeper and you will hear your voice calling out names. Share what you come up with. You will pick the right one.
3 words: “Stop eating that”
Sounds like a good exercise. I’ll try it later.
LOL! In that case: Chewy