haha, sounds like you have been burnt. Maybe don't lend someone money and expect it back. Some people really just need help, and are able to pay it back. Got to have those senses to pick out the ones that will pay you back and the ones who wont, and make sure you have enough to lose if your going to give to the ones who wont. I am overly giving and must admit I have done a whole lot of improper lending, I care too much about my friends. Even when they were in shitty spots and I could tell they wouldnt be able to pay me back for a long time, I still lent money. This is a lesson that I have had trouble learning and you are of course right. lending people money and expecting something from it is a set up for a fail.
haha, sounds like you have been burnt. Maybe don't lend someone money and expect it back. Some people really just need help, and are able to pay it back. Got to have those senses to pick out the ones that will pay you back and the ones who wont, and make sure you have enough to lose if your going to give to the ones who wont. I am overly giving and must admit I have done a whole lot of improper lending, I care too much about my friends. Even when they were in shitty spots and I could tell they wouldnt be able to pay me back for a long time, I still lent money. This is a lesson that I have had trouble learning and you are of course right. lending people money and expecting something from it is a set up for a fail.