Hi @ogoowinnner, it is good thing to cater for family and relatives. But not to your detriment.
There's no how you should love other people than yourself.
Everything we need in life are simple reasoning and logic. You have needs as others have. You might decide to share your resources with them if only it will not have a severe blowback on your plans.
One might decide to help others at the slightest inconvenient state but there's an adage that You cannot watch other people's children and allow yours be snatched.
Work with this.
It's my opinion and belief though.