@ogoowinner i totally understand your situation as i also have had such experience. earlier this week a friend came to my house seeking for help and that wouldnt be the first or second time he ll come for such help. i am glad i could help him but deep within me i do not feel good for him. he is a man in his early twenties like me and i was not okay with the fact that he cant get a hang of his life at that age .

you know what i did?

i sat him down and made him realise that i wont be around forever and at his age he need to start controlling his life..... when we got talking i was surprised when i asked him what he could , he said he knows hoe to barb hair and that he learnt it a long time ago....

After a long talk we made an agreement and i am glad to tell you that before january he would be having his own saloon ,and i am giving him my full support.

trust me madam, nobody likes to depend on others before they can fend for themselves , i think you have not been appealing enough to make them understand why they should work for them self ....

some know they way, they just need a push . some dont know at all , they need direction. Figure out which category your people fall too and help give them direction. Trust me if you dont help , no one else will and you cant ignore them.

You are an agent of Change , you only can inspire that change because they look to you . If you can do this, they will thank you for it and also you will thank yourself for it.

you could also tell them about steemit......

You have what it takes, The World is yours.

thanks and i hope this helps