Wisdom, again.
The peaceful consideration of someone else's perspective doesn't mean we are obliged to adopt their perspective as our own... merely that we "see them," but still retain our own experience. But goodness, yes... it can be easy to get stuck in "our stuff" and end up arguing... like all things, staying calm and centered is a practice.
Beautiful words as always. Thank you.
And blessings to you on this wonderful journey :)