Dear friend,
I thought you got my back.
I shared my joy and pains with you.
You console me when I cry.
You give a shoulder to lean on.
In you I found a hiding place.
You became my comfort zone.
Little did I know you drew me close so you could stab so deep.
This is no fiction!
Be careful with who you call a friend.
Don't trust too easily and too quickly.
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My dear, we need to be extremely careful because fake friends are everywhere
I'm speechless!
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Cheer up Asa. Such is life. Good people still dey, however.
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The world is filled with deception.
Thank you for your thoughts! We all need to pick our close friends wisely!
True. Thanks for visiting my blog.
Friends are the ones who hurt the most. Have been really careful when I got betrayed by a trusted friend 2 years back. Reason they say "Be mindful of your friends than Enemies". Cos some friends are like thieves in the night, always unexpected.
An enemy can't really hurt you so much, because you already know he's an enemy. But the stabbing of a friend goes very deep and the pains are unbearable.
Unbearable but we still need to pick up the remaining piece and move on. Reason why a lot of ladies prefer the male counterpart as friends. Open your heart to the wind, everything will be fine.
True words....
Thanks for the advice.
And thank you for gracing clinic fm with your presence. You made our night. Keep being amazing, winning woman.
You are welcome @jeline.
Nothing really hurts like the betrayal of a friend. Friends are meant to be people who look out for us and make us better person's.
It hurt when they turn and stab us from behind. It's a wound that takes time or rather forever to heal.
lets choose our friends wisely
True! It's better not to trust anyone anymore.
I may not know what you went through or who betrayed you but please don't use that as a criteria not to trust or become resentful to new friends. Just forgive and move on Knowing God got your back
It's better to get wiser and not trust anyone.
Trusting no one is not healthy my dear.
See this event. The great emperor Julius Caesar was walking with his entourage. He saw a beggar who ask him for aid. Caesar then gave the man one gold coin which was at then the highest currency then. Everyone was shocked thinking why will Caesar give such an amount of money to a mere beggar. Then Caesar replied I don't give based on the beggar status but I give he gives based on his status.
Why this analogy?
Most times we then to change the way we think or live our lives because of someone else's status. We then to allow people's flaws and short comings towards us change our perspectives about live.
No.... We should allow our decisions turn out to change people and not vice versa. Have you been heart broken? Come dust yourself up and move on with God's light in your heart. Paul said the live of God is shared abroad in our heart by the Holy Ghost. So we love not based on people's qualifications and not our personality.
To end all these. Do you know when God said we should love, he didn't put a burden on us to love? In 1 John John said this and I think you should take this to heart
That's the key. The knowledge and understanding of God's love for me causes me to love unconditionally. God's love for me is unconditional so because I have seen it and believed and experience it, all can't just help but to love.
Well this comment has turned into a mini post oooo... Let me go and post it in my blog jare...
But @Ogoowinner I hope you find this helpful. You could reply what you think
Much love 😍
Short but with weight.
Well, there are still trust worthy friends but one just need to be careful when selecting a friend that won't betray. 'be careful is the watch word'
True!
The winner dont get sad over things that shape existence and future. Thats one if them. It rechannels one to other route of success. Just smile and walk through. Remember no difference between a friend and an enemy but on what we choose to call any. Swt morning
Thank you.
We all need that friend that hangs with us through thick and thin.
They are difficult to find these days. Even the one who was with you previously, sometimes gets envious and becomes a backbiter.
When you start succeeding in life, it is best to tighten up your security, especially with colleagues and friends. People sometimes want you to remain in the same level with them or they just want to be better off. The heart of man is highly envious of his neighbour.
Those ones ain't real. The real ones hangs on, in poverty and in excess. Those are the true friends. If they can't stay when it's rough, we have a name for that. We call it a fair weather friend.
Many people think lying makes them smart. But it only makes them evil. The sooner we learn from the horrible and terrible mistakes of others the better and safer we would be and save ourselves from being miserable.
That's right!
Friends are really those who can kill us the most, because they are our back bones when we have problems and they know us better than others.
We ought to choose our friends and don't allow them to choose us. Think is the best way to a large extent to protect ourselves from this heart break.
Thank you for this contribution.
Mehn...
This is so touching, yet very true.
Almost everyone has or at a time being victim of these fake friends. Thanks for the caution @ogoowinner
I'm just speechless!
I think we just need to be careful as you said @ogoowinner
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Indeed, we must pick our friends wisely, we are largely products of the relationships we keep. However fake friends are proofs that real friends do exist. We must find them because we need them.
We learn and grow with each stab. Here's hoping to be a well learned one.
I have been in similar situation the ones closest to me hurt me so deeply. from my own experience i discovered that it is not the people who change, it's the mask that falls off. Thank you for this amazing post my friend @ogoowinner.