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Trusting no one is not healthy my dear.
See this event. The great emperor Julius Caesar was walking with his entourage. He saw a beggar who ask him for aid. Caesar then gave the man one gold coin which was at then the highest currency then. Everyone was shocked thinking why will Caesar give such an amount of money to a mere beggar. Then Caesar replied I don't give based on the beggar status but I give he gives based on his status.

Why this analogy?

Most times we then to change the way we think or live our lives because of someone else's status. We then to allow people's flaws and short comings towards us change our perspectives about live.

No.... We should allow our decisions turn out to change people and not vice versa. Have you been heart broken? Come dust yourself up and move on with God's light in your heart. Paul said the live of God is shared abroad in our heart by the Holy Ghost. So we love not based on people's qualifications and not our personality.

To end all these. Do you know when God said we should love, he didn't put a burden on us to love? In 1 John John said this and I think you should take this to heart

We love because he first loved us.

That's the key. The knowledge and understanding of God's love for me causes me to love unconditionally. God's love for me is unconditional so because I have seen it and believed and experience it, all can't just help but to love.

This goes also to trust.

Well this comment has turned into a mini post oooo... Let me go and post it in my blog jare...
But @Ogoowinner I hope you find this helpful. You could reply what you think
Much love 😍