My wife was in the exact same position. I met her at 29, single, never married and no kids. She said no good guy's around, so ended up choosing a man with LOTS of baggage. Children, evil EX.. she is a dream for me. So there is someone for everyone. I know kids are a hassle, but its also the commitment from the guy that is important. Good luck on your journey! NYC is a nest of parasitic liberals and you aren't.. so that means you have a great mind, and you are attractive so I think you are in good shape! You shouldn't have a problem at all so try not being so hard on yourself.
❤️ thank you for saying this love❤️