Good humor here, @zuerich:
"as I feel like being in a flow of writing about unpopular topics"
Good thing you are writing this on a censorship proof blockchain. 🤔 Oh WAIT! Hahaha ... Or not ... 😉
Seriously, there are very few more important topics than the education of our children. While I can't speak for Europe (or Switzerland), I can speak with some authority on how this is going in America. Very poorly ...
Why?
Largely due to the monopoly of the State on the education of our children. To the point where there literally are adults who can apparently comfortably accept the fact the State can make decisions about their children, without their consent. Or even their awareness ...
Good grief!
Thankfully, there have always been some alternatives, with more or less grudging legal protection, which varies from state to state. With President Trump's recent decisions, this will all be put to the most important test in my lifetime. Ideally, resulting in what we might call a "free market" of options from which parents can choose.
As a veteran of the existing homeschool and private school options available where we lived, I am biased. But we never wanted the State to dictate their terms to us about our biggest responsibility.
All the best to you and your beloved, as you face your version of this fundamental responsibility, for the future of your children there.
P.S. I could easily write a post or two to provide input to many of the points you make in your post. I will only add a very succinct comment on the one which seemed to always trip up like-minded parents here the most.
What is that?
In whatever way it is expressed, the argument about needing to go to school to be ... "socially well adjusted." This is just garbage. And false. Figuring out how you and your beloved are going to raise your children to successfully stand against peer pressure, alone if necessary, is one of the greatest challenges you will almost certainly face.