Last week he asked me again to have sex with him...
If I could, I would tell her boyfriend my opinion:
Don’t push her to have sex with you, she will come to you once she feels ready. If you love her, it can wait, be patient. Even if you are in bed together, doesn’t mean you have to have sex. Assure her you are not with her just to have sex. Just cuddle and she will eventually tell you herself. 😀
They both have to be ready for this “next step”. And I think, because he keeps asking her, which at the same time can make her nervous about this whole sex thing, she as well may not be ready just yet. At the same time he doesn’t have to be her true love either to have sex. Even though I’m a Christian, I don’t believe in these rules “if you are not a Christian and don’t follow the rules, your doors to heaven is locked”. In my opinion everyone with a good heart has a way to heaven. People make mistakes, if she eventually feels she made a mistake, she can just move on.
This is my opinion before I read your response...
I wish the churches taught people how to make heaven here instead of frightening them...