Thank you so much for this comment. I sometimes feel bad because I have decided to let go of the relationship with my father but as you stated when you are repeatedly disrespected it makes sense to let it go. I do disagree with your statement of not having to love your family. God requires us to love others because he has loved us, in spite of ourselves. I do however agree with the notion of loving people from a distance. With some people that is just how it has to be. Life is too short for hurtful relationships.
I pray that God blesses you in a way that only he can as you conquer your cancer. So here's to 2017 and a toxic-free life!!!