"We usually fight against money," admits Sarah, * in Ghana, 17, married to Jacob. He explains: "I feel angry because I work hard for family care and Jacob never talks about his finances. We have not talked to each other for weeks."
"Yes, says Jacob, there are times when both of us say angry things. Sometimes caused by a lack of meaningful communication, misunderstandings. The conflicts also arise because of our excessive reaction to situations. "
Nathan, recently married in India, described what happened one day when his father screamed at her nephew. "She was offended," he said, "and left the house. When I asked him why she was crying like this, he felt that he, his son, insulted him. The next thing I remember was screaming at us all. "
You may also have seen how lousy weather or naughty words can cause a lot of conflict at home. What can begin with a peaceful exchange of thought can quickly turn into a verbal dispute. No one can say precisely the right thing all the time, so it can easily misunderstand what others mean or misunderstand their motives. Still, it is possible to enjoy absolute peace and harmony.
What can you do when the triggered arguments start? How can families maintain peace in the household? Read on. What steps can you take to restore order in the family?
Very good post.
Nice post
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@maryresp from kryptonia
I also hate quarrels. I rather leave the place.
Kryptonia ID @hairyfairy
How to maintain peace? Don't try to change your beloved, don't force him to act according your wishes. Accept your beloved as he/she is.
@fortunee via kryptonai
Family arguments like this lead to a lot of unhappiness in the home, making it hard to find out what the problem really is. When a house becomes disruptive like this, each should make a list of their feelings, top 5 for and top 5 against whatever is triggering the dispute, then discuss.
Power of the pen and putting feelings into words can help overcome problems sometimes @cryptocheta it happens in the best of homes from time to time.
Visiting from @kryptonia
Informative post
Upvoted kryptonia @svensson
Will u answer the questions in next blogpost?