Family arguments like this lead to a lot of unhappiness in the home, making it hard to find out what the problem really is. When a house becomes disruptive like this, each should make a list of their feelings, top 5 for and top 5 against whatever is triggering the dispute, then discuss.
Power of the pen and putting feelings into words can help overcome problems sometimes @cryptocheta it happens in the best of homes from time to time.
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