Nobody is perfect and one of my faults is talking too much and i started noticing some signs that people get bored like when i'm talking and they start looking at the floor and don't pay much attention, or i have to repeat what i'm saying...
sometimes it gets me angry that people don't pay enough attention to me, but then i understand its my fault that i talk too much...
What about you? What is one of your biggest faults?
The prob is with the people,,, they can't listen too much. Chill !
That is true and some just think about themselves @sajan.rai :)
It's a bitter truth
Good for you. My problem is that I don’t speak untill I feel that the other person wants to listen. Thus I speak too little.
I was like that when i was younger, but after university i think something in me changed, and now i talk and talk and talk :P
Hehe. Just keep your style of speaking. But dont forget to always listening and understanding.
Ganbatte!
I try to :) Thank you for your words @putrimaulina90 :)
No offense but maybe it is the WAY you speak. My wife does not talk very much but when she is telling a story it goes on WAY too long! I am not a professional speaker but I have always heard: less is more.
The more effective speakers can convey a point, even with elaborate details, with as little verbiage as possible.
It has also been said that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason. That is to listen twice as much as we speak! Good luck in your goals and I hope I helped instead of insulted.
I'm not offended, and i quite appreciate your opinion @superdavey :) I think body language is also very important and the ability to speak less and resume what is said also. You helped me a lot and i will try to change some things and perfect my ability to speak :)
I kind of got used to just licensing more to people, unless people ask for my advice or idea. lol :)
In Portugal is said that woman talk a lot and most men are quiet. Maybe in your country is the same :P @yichiam :)